The only thing that counts is faith expressing itself through love. Galatians 5:6

Tuesday, May 5, 2026

The Birdbath Experiment

 


There's a few things you need to know before we get started here.

One is that our outside life here in the city is limited to spring and fall.  Many features others might want on their porch or in their yard that are directly connected to hot summer weather, don't really find their way into our plans.  

Flowering plants that have their heyday in July and August, for instance, just not going to get much attention from me.  Unless of course they are very self-sufficient.  (I'm considering hostas for a planned for garden in the shady back.)

All things spring, however, I'm all over that.  And later, much later, I will be happy to decorate the porch for fall...then Christmas.  Like that.

A reminder in this.  Our place is new.  There's still LOTS to be worked on in terms of setting up landscaping and gardening.  This spring, in addition to a few upgrades to my meager attempts at early season gardening, I have been able to add a bit of love for the birds.  Started with a bird feeder and some birdseed which has attracted a pair of cardinals, two blue jays, numerous grackles and sparrows, and a few others I haven't actually identified yet.  


I'll have to sit outside longer to get better pictures of the customers.  For now, here's not such a bad shot of the cardinal, given the zoom and screen detractors.

All this has led to me wondering if a birdbath would help welcome our feathered friends.  And that leads me to the other thing you need to know.

A value we've adopted and are trying to apply here on the common property we share with our son, is one where frugality and creativity combine to compel us to seek out items that could be repurposed instead of purchased new.  There's enough 'stuff' on the planet already.  Let's see how we might give something a new life before we just dump it in a landfill somewhere.  This value is something our son is teaching us, and I'm really enjoying the divergent thinking of it, and the satisfaction when something comes together.

And so, back to the birdbath.


What might happen if you took an old metal chair frame, found a bowl for five bucks at the thrift store, and realized it fit perfectly into the rim of the chair seat?  Then, what if the bowl was a little too deep for birds to have that shallow place to splash about, so you took an unused Corel dinner plate from a retired set of 20 that's not being used by anyone anymore because you already have so many other plates you like better now.  

And what if that dinner plate fit perfectly into the inner circle of the too-deep bowl?  And then, what if you just put that all together, filled up the bowl until the water was covering the dinner plate, and added a few decorative stones scoffed from another pile you already had arranged on the porch?

And what if then you filled out the 'setting' of the birdbath with a weird-cool, fits-in-so-many-differently-styled-corners, metal spinny thing your sister in law got you eons ago, and put it right beside it, so that the birds would have another place to perch?  And added a spring flower from the grocery store and put it in a very old tin pitcher that came from underneath the cottage at one point, and put that beside the weird-cool metal spinny thing?

 


Ta da!!

I am pleased, if I do say so myself.

Now.  All we need is for the birds to think it's a good idea.  Hence, the experiment is still an experiment.

The birdbath and the bird feeders, two of them, are positioned so that if I'm sitting on our couch, I have a direct line of vision.  I may ask Ken to take out the screens on just those two windows to see if I can get some pictures, should we have visitors.  I do hope so.  As of this writing, no one has needed a bath yet.  We'll see.

If anyone can see any problems with the design, or can give me more hints as to how to attract feathered friends, I'm all ears.

So that's what I did with the later part of the afternoon yesterday.  Not bad for Monday, since I was also able to get a decent amount of desk work done as well.  Off to a good start for the week.

Tuesday, here we come.


Monday, May 4, 2026

Monday's Gratitude



"And the God of all grace,
who has called to His eternal glory in Christ,
after you have suffered a little while,
will Himself restore you
and make you strong, firm and steadfast.
To Him be the power for ever and ever.
Amen."
1 Peter 5:10-11
 

Ken and I have often commented on how different Mondays feel in this current stage of life.

We're not retired, yet we can enjoy some of the flexibility and freedoms of working from home at our own pace.  Children are an essential and exceedingly hilarious part of our lives, but the days of raising them under our roof are long past us.  

What happens then is that the weekends often are full and busy.  By Monday morning, just getting up with the sun, quietly starting the week with a stretch and some breakfast, and a happy anticipation for what we might get done by Friday, feels more relaxed....kind of how weekends used to feel.  It's a bit of a switch.

This morning I am feeling that way particularly because of all that filled up and filled out this weekend past. 

 And I am grateful for....

...finding at the thrift story on Friday, what I hope will be the right bowl to create a unique birdbath for our porch.  Five dollar investment for a creative experiment.  More on that later.

...the fun and camaraderie and decent amount of work that got done at our Church Clean Up Day at Highview on Saturday.  Inside and out are all spiffed up, and it was great to work together with people I love doing life with.  I am particularly pleased with the opportunity to clear out a corner of our lower level that had collected a whole lot of crazy.  Looks so much better now!!!  



...upstairs worship and downstairs fun at Church on Sunday morning.  Who knew that I'd be bouncing around to "Your Everlasting Love" in my late 60's?  So much fun teaching some of this to the next generation.

...the time spent with a courageous friend making hard decisions with clarity and grit.  

...sad but meaningful time with family to mark what would have been Evelyn's sixth birthday.  Grateful for those who remember with us in different ways.  



Today's reading landed me again on 1 Peter 5:10-11, one of my favourites for sure.
As promised, I am feeling restored, strong, firm and steadfast 
on this particular Monday morning 
in this particular era of life.

Whatever is ahead of you this week, 
I pray bountiful reasons for thank yous, 
and the strength you need to accomplish 
whatever it is that calls you forward into it.


Sunday, May 3, 2026

Evelyn Hope - May 3, 2019

 


Our baby girl.  

A mystic moment in our arms.

Forever and always in our hearts.

Written with wild love into the story of our family.

We are not the same.


"And we will dance on the streets that are golden."
David Ruis


Friday, May 1, 2026

Practice Makes Possible Upcoming Workshops

 

 
PRACTICE MAKES POSSIBLE
Deeping our Connection with God Through Spiritual Practices

Upcoming Dates:
(depending on minimum 3 participants each)

Thursday, May 14 - 1:00 to 3:30 - In Person
Wednesday, May 20 - 7:00 to 9:30 p.m. In Person
(Location: 72 Sandra Avenue, Kitchener N2M 1Z6)

Wednesday, May 27 - 1:00 to 3:30 p.m. - Zoom
Wednesday, June 10 - 1:00 to 3:30 p.m. - Zoom
Tuesday, June 16 - 9:00 to 11:30 a.m. -  Zoom
Saturday, June 20 - 9:00 to 11:30 a.m. - Zoom

An interactive experience designed to help us 
nurture the environments that help us grow deeper in our connection with God.

Maximum of 6 participants for each workshop provides an intimate environment where interactive dialogue can be an important part of the learning experience.

By the end of the workshop you will:
- Have a better understanding of yourself to craft a personalized spiritual formation plan.
- Have practiced an ancient form of Bible engagement known as "Lectio Divina."
- Have practiced a simple method of personal Bible meditation built around the acronym S.O.A.P.

Cost:
$35 per person
$25 if you gather a group of 5 or more

To Register:
Contact me at rabreithaupt@hcckw.ca.


Includes:
  • Three Sessions:  
    • "Confectionary Quiet Times: Drafting a Spiritual Formation Plan",
    •  "Bible Listening: Lectio Divina," and 
    • "Letting the Bible Read Me: S.O.A.P."
  • Power Point Presentation
  • Participants Workbooks (provided electronically, or printed for KW area participants)
  • Interactive instruction and guided discussion
  • Zoom-intimate environment
  • Bibliography for further exploration
Cost:
  • $35.00 per person
  • Due five days before workshop date
  • Various payment options
  • 100% of proceeds go directly to New Family Foundation
  • Zoom link and Worksheets will be provided after payment.

The material shared in this workshop was first developed for an in-person Ladies' Retreat and presented to 52 women in March 2026 with encouragingly positive feedback.  

Two Workshops have already been held on line.  Enthusiastic feedback has further encouraged me to make this more widely available. 

As New Family Foundation enters into a more intensive fundraising season, I am seeking to use my experience and skills in creative ways to benefit our cause.



To Register:
Contact me at rabreithaupt@hcckw.ca.


Rev. Ruth Anne Breithaupt, MDiv.
Canadian Representative/Missionary in Residence
New Family Foundation/Highview Community Church

The mission of New Family Foundation is to
provide a loving home for at-risk and 
orphaned children in Northern Thailand to
help them achieve their best potential in 
education, vocation and service to society.



                                            
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A Longer Spring

 


Legit question.

How did it get to be May already?

April wasn't supposed to have been that busy, yet it ended up speeding by, just the same.  Which is strange also because... hasn't this just been a slower start to Spring?

It's often not so.  We wait forever for the snow to leave, and then it does, and then we have a few brief days of sun and rain and still needing a jacket.  Then the temperature cranks up and we're full on into summer weather, almost stepping right over all the pleasantries of Spring.

This year, the season has hung out with us a bit longer.  Even perhaps clinging on to those lower overnight temperatures with a bit more of a grip that any gardener might appreciate.  We're down in the minus digits again over the weekend.  

But even so.  It's okay by me that we're really and truly having Spring this year.  Kind of fits with an overall theme that's taking shape in my own life right now, starting with Lent and continuing.  

Take your time.  

There's no rush.  

Pace it out.  

Think it through.  

Trust the process.  

Watch what grows.

"There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under the heavens."
Ecclesiastes 3:1

So here's to the beginning of another month of letting things take as long as they need.
Hope your day is splendid.

Sunday, April 26, 2026

Pushing Back

 


1 Peter 4:19
So then, those who suffer for obeying God
should commit themselves to their faithful Creator
and continue to do good.

A caveat to begin.  

The kind of suffering experienced by Peter's original audience was extreme and traumatic.  It's easy to forget that, when the Christian movement was first beginning, to claim that you were a follower of Jesus could very easily result in overt, empire-initiated persecution, torture, or loss of life.  That's just history.

For me, and most of my believing friends in this era and this part of the world, we have no sweet clue about suffering 'for obeying God.'

That being said.

It's probably true that most of us, at one time or another, have had the "aggravation of spirit" that rises up when, despite clearly having done 'the right thing,' somehow the consequences have come down hard in a punishing kind of way.  Instead of being rewarded, we are criticized, demoted, demeaned, overlooked, suspected, taken advantage of, mocked and/or out right attacked.

  • Standing up to a bully on behalf of the bullied, and having the snot kicked out of you.
  • Refusing to bend the law or cross ethical lines for an employer, and getting fired for it.
  • Refusing to keep a secret that needed to come to the light, and becoming a target for vitriol.  
  • Turning down the drink because you have your reasons, and being painted as the party's buzz kill.
  • Refusing to lie for a "friend," and then losing that friend.
  • Struggling to breastfeed your baby while fielding degrading comments about your ability as a mother.
  • Protecting the reputation of someone who turns around and slanders yours.
  • Declining to take reimbursements you're entitled to, and being accused of financial abuse anyways.
  • Being laughed at by the one who broke your trust for trusting them in the first place.
  • Offering a gift with genuine intentions and being accused of manipulation.
  • Offering assistance with grace to someone who caused their own difficult situation, and being pulled into a black hole of ingratitude.
I could go on.
Maybe you could too.
I feel you.

And here I need to add that Jesus wanted us to be "as wise as snakes and as innocent as doves" (Matthew 10:16).  And Paul was clear that we should "watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way" and to be "wise about what is good" (Romans 16:17,19).  Way back in Proverbs, there are so many cautions about how we engage with certain folks (eg. Proverbs 14:16).  

So to "continue to do good" can't mean to continue to allow ourselves to be abused, or used, or bullied, or manipulated, or otherwise harmed.  Indeed, when Peter was writing this, there was no such thing as an understood Universal Declaration of Human Rights, or any legitimate, legal means by which those human rights could be protected.  

What Peter is getting at here, though, might be much harder.  Because it's about the deeper, kind of gritty conviction that good is still the right thing to do.  That, even if we have to remove ourselves from harmful situations, we don't give up on goodness.

We don't give up by succumbing to revenge.
We don't give up by hanging old stuff on new people.
We don't give up by becoming suspicious of every new situation.
We don't give up by caving in to joining in doing harm.
We don't give up by despairing of doing good since life doesn't always seem fair, so what's the point?

Instead.  We commit ourselves - we trust ourselves into the hands of our faithful Creator -Whose faithfulness is legendary by the way - and just keep doing the right thing, no matter what.

It's a resolve.  Doing good because it's the right thing to do.

Friends, let's not give up.  Because the world badly needs gritty doers of good.  People who truly believe that there is something right about doing the right thing.  It will, if we let it, push the the bad stuff back.  If we just keep moving forward, one good thing at a time.

And now, what can happen this week?  
Can't wait to see.

And oh.  The flowers picture.
As much as I would like to have a clever illustration or connection to the blog content...I got nothin.'  
This is just one of several hyacinths from our 'bonus' front garden, where spring flowers show up every year courtesy of the former owner.  
We just enjoy.  


Friday, April 24, 2026

Friday "Feels" (or maybe Friday "Thinks")

 


You will keep in perfect peace
those whose minds are steadfast
because they trust in You.
Trust in the LORD forever,
for the LORD, the LORD himself 
is the Rock eternal.
Isaiah 26:3-4

And here we are.  The wrapping up of another work week.  At least for those of us who do the Monday to Friday thing.  

I think Friday has a special feel for everyone though.  It's a echo of all those years in school perhaps.  Or Friday night family times.  Or getting away for the weekend times.  Or whatever makes the rhythms of life work for us.

It's been a decent week for me.  Enough checked off the list to feel good about.  An even balance of the work I relish and the work I have to do.  A positive start on something new.  Traction on all four of the upcoming sermons I'm working on.  Life giving conversations outside in the sunshine.  A little bit of yard clean up in the warmer at-last weather.

There was also 'hard news' from two distant, unrelated friends, frustrations about sensitive matters that mean a lot to me but over which I have zero control, and the need again to self-advocate on an important value that I thought was fully embraced by everyone but apparently not.  These things don't show up on the list, but bang around in my head, and require significant energy to "keep every thought captive" (2 Corinthians 10:5), and my mind "steadfast because [I] trust in You" (Isaiah 26:3).

Shalom, shalom.  Perfect peace.

So I get to this particular Friday morning grateful for

a good night's sleep
a willowy sunrise
a new list to create, fresh for next week
the anticipation of lunch with a friend
the anticipation of running some happy errands with Ken
the many, many abundant gifts of my life
and reminders of God's long faithfulness.

Hope your Friday is good to you.
And if you need it, sending some peace your way.